Saturday, March 21, 2009

At RI HQ, I am a Princess....

Being blown off by the wind…..and hospitality at Rotary Headquarters!!

The story begins at North-East Link, when I met the outbound Coordinator, Brent Dage and he suggested that since I am so inspired by Rotary, I should visit the Headquarters. He also added that my then-coordinator (since I am an inbound scholar) Bryant Brownlee could help me get in touch with some Rotarian, who could help me arrange for stay and plan the trip. So, I started literally bugging Bryant, and he finally introduced me to Patrick Linden, who is a Rotarian with RC Chicago Far North and also had been Scholarships Coordinator for the District. So, we started planning my trip way back in November. Initially, the President of his club offered to host me but due to some circumstances, that didn’t work out. Meanwhile, I had made an appointment with the RI HQ for a tour, informed my coordinators (Laura Allen for World Peace Fellow, past coordinator Bryant Brownlee and present coordinator Jill Gunter, Scholarships head Renee Stephenson) that I would be visiting and I would love to spend some time with them. I also got in touch with the Rotract Incharge at RI HQ and got contact details of the District Rotract Representative (DRR) for Chicago, Holly. I wanted to utilize the trip to the maximum and hence wanted to meet some Rotractors as well as present at some Rotary Clubs. So, while Patrick helped me arrange for two presentations, Holly got me in touch with the Rotract Presidents in Chicago. I also made an appointment to visit the first club ever, RC Chicago, also known as Rotary One. When the housing with the club president didn’t work out, one of the Rotractor helped me find a place with some of his friends. SO, there I was, starting my Spring Break, visiting a city where I practically didn’t know anyone personally, all because they had the Rotary connection.

With Paul Harris’ Statue at HQ


Reaching Chicago:

My Host District’s (7890) Asst Gov, Marcel was a sweetheart to drop me off at the airport. Patrick and his daughter, Noell, came to receive me at the airport and we headed to a fund-raising event for their club. It was a Jazz night at a pub and the proceeds from the bar would go to a Project they were supporting in Uganda. Yes! Rotary from the moment I landed! It was actually fun, as

I am not too much into Jazz bands. We headed out pretty early as I had a hectic week coming up and was also tired after the journey!

Day One and I am the Princess...:

With President D.K.Lee

My very first appointment for the trip was at RI HQ. Thanks to a package that Patrick had given me, which contained maps, directions, places to visit as a tourist and other items, I reached Evanston on my own (Evanston is on the northern side of Chicago, and very much accessible via subway trains). I started my tour with another Rotarian, who had been an Exchange Student as well and she was like, “It’s like visiting our Mecca!” I could not help, but agree with her. While we were taking pictures, President Lee walked up to me and asked if I were a Rotarian. I said, “No, I am a Scholar from India”. He said, that then we should definitely take a picture together. He then mentioned that he met another Scholar from India at RI/UN Day. I smiled, and informed him that it was me! :)

After the tour, I met my coordinator Jill, who along with Laura, took me out for coffee. I exchanged my experiences with them, asked them about their experience at Rotary and how was it like to work there. Post-coffee, I met with the Alumni Coordinator, who inspired me to be in touch even when I finish my term. They have all sorts of cool things---conventions for Alumni, newsletters for the activities that Alums have been doing but their biggest challenge is for the Alums to keep in touch! Lunch was next on the agenda, with Bryant, Renee and Jill, where we exchanged more news and experiences. Honestly, I had been emailing them for so long—it was so good to put faces to names! I really felt like a Princess at Rotary Headquarters---especially when they said they had arranged for a photo-shoot for me. It was just out-of the world experience. I would recommend to all Scholars to visit HQ, if they can.

Row one: (Left) L-R: Laura, me and Jill; (Right) L-R: Bryant, me and Renee; Row Two: (Left) L-R: Jill, me and Renee; (Right) RI HQ Entrance.

I explored Evanston a bit, before meeting up with one of my college seniors from India, who, as I found out a week before visiting Chicago, was working at North-Western University and living in Chicago. Downtown Chicago was next on my list and I walked up and down the Magnificent Mile, before heading back.

Day two and some more Rotary!

Tuesday started with presentation at RC Chicago Far North and followed by visit to RC Chicago, with Millennium Park (Yes, the famous Chicago Bean) and the Art Institute in between. Noell had volunteered to take me to Devon Avenue, the Indian area in Chicago for lunch and we explored the area. I really felt like I was in India when I got there! Tuesday was a beautiful day and I utilized it to walk on Michigan Avenue, near the Lake and enjoying the evening breeze.

A day for myself...

I didn’t have any appointments for Wednesday, at least not till the evening, and I wore my tourist shoes and explored the city on foot, literally! Adler Planetarium, Field Museum, Shedd Aquarium, Navy Pier and Deep-dish Pizza at Numero Uno! The day was adventurous as I almost got lost on my way to Navy Pier and walked the whole day…The evening was reserved for a Game-Night at a Rotract Meeting but I was so tried, after early mornings for 3 days, hardly any sleep and walking around the city, that I decided to skip it (which was probably a bad idea but at that time, looked like the best one L ). But, the best part is, the tourist in me was satisfied. I had never explored any city on my own, especially a new city and now, I am confident to go anywhere in the world and not worry that there is no one to take me around, or help me go to places or just give me company. I actually enjoyed the day with myself, exploring, getting lost and finding the way back again!

Final day in the Windy City…

A presentation at RC Lakeview started the last day in Chicago. I had explored most of the city, so I headed back to Devon Ave (On Tuesday, most of the shops were closed!) and ate a nice Indian lunch, followed by some window-shopping. It was a relaxed day and I wanted to end it early—I had an early morning flight the next day and had to leave for airport at 4:30am in the morning! Phew! And, of course, Marcel came to receive me at the airport again! Honestly, I don’t know what I would do without him around!!

Lastly…….

Just a note to all the Scholars, whether you are inbound or outbound, do visit the HQ when you can—even after your term is over…it is just amazing…and do keep in touch with them, they REALLY want to know what we do once we finish our terms. And, guess what, we can always apply for a job at HQ—some of the people who worked there were Scholars as well! Nice, isn’t it?

Monday, January 12, 2009

Of snow and many more things....

So, I am back again....before I say anything, you must understand that I am absolutely NOT into all this blogging thing, and it kind of gets difficult for me to keep up...maybe if I wrote diaries as a kid, it would have been easier...but...maybe another lifetime!!

Snow....snow....everywhere....!!! Yes! This is my first ever winter in New England and its been good so far....love the snow...first time it snowed, I got so excited that I went down at 2am in the morning without my gloves to play in snow...



NOTICE....NO GLOVES!!!

definitely learnt a lesson!! From then on, it has been a "snowy" saga....walking through slush is pathetic...but virgin snow is just amazing...it is just so beautiful..for all those who come from a snowy country, dont think I am talking like a kid---I come from a tropical country and the thought of seeing snowfall live is just so romantic---all I wish sometimes that my apartment had a fireplace and I would sit next to it, with a book and coffee and spend a quiet evening...someday...someday!!

video

My first visit to New York and it could not have been timed more perfectly...we finish out final deadline for the last finals at 9am in the morning and head off for NY at 2pm in the afternoon---4 girls and minds that need to be stress-busted!! Even though we reached NY at 7pm in the night, we headed off for a walk down Park Avenue straight after dinner and opening a Champange bottle that Tricia got to celebrate the end of semester!! 11pm and we find ourselves at Rockerfellar Museum...midnight and we were at Times Square...How come we were walking there? well...we stayed right between 1st and 2nd ave...on 49th street...amazing location--isnt it?



GRAND CENTRAL STATION...

NY never sleeps but we had to...after a long long walk, and watching musical show outside SAKS FIFTH AVENUE, chilling out @ Times Square, Park Avenue...we got back..determined to do more and more the next day...

Day two was dedicated to explore the fashion street---FIFTH AVENUE...all the best brands...definitely couldnt shop there but it was just fantastic just looking through the windows and exploring the latest in fashion! I noticed something very particluar while walking around that area--since it is a very affluent location, and office area too...people who lived there were dressed so sophisticately...all in Black (it felt like they were all mourning..!!)...high heels in snow
FIFTH AVE...
(I was shivering wiht my snow boots---god knows how they wore the high high heels...)...open hair (I refused to walk around without my ear-muffs)...and oh-so-sophisticated!! Next in line was a trip to Wall Street--which I just HAD to...so, Anna gave me the encouragement to go alone in the subway (first time in NY and I was travelling alone...not a big deal but my parents would have definitely freaked out...!!)...seeing the famous Bull was nice...and I managed to catch a glimpse of the Statue of Liberty from the Straten Island ferry as well...the trip was an adventure in itself and then, thanks to cell phones, met up with my friends again for a fun-filled evening...


(L-R) Anna, Elena, Tricia and me

I had the most amazing tacos on 8th ave and headed for a Comedy Show...now my friend Elena was friends with this guy who was working in a Comedy Club...so, we went...and guess what? no one else part from 6 of us turned out.. (how 6? well..4 of us...plus, Anna's cousin Eric and friend Erin)...so, it was like a comedy show for us in our living room..and we started to pull the leg of

(L-R) Tricia, Anna, Erin and me

the comedians...some took it fine...others just gave up...how do you handle 6 energetic people, high on life...(Anna, I mean my high and not your high!!) and the saga continued....we headed for a night of pub-hopping...from one to another...finally had to leave the last pub at 4am..thats when all the pubs in the city close... :((

Day three was going to be a lazy one but thanks to a Snow-storm prediction, which turned out true and it was snowing like MADDDD, we left really really early form NY....the usual 2.5 hours drive took us about 7 hours...imagine the snowfall....the road condition and our situation...I was just hoping that we reach Amherst in one piece...but thanks to the amazing driver that Tricia is, no accidents...no mishaps...!! You are awesome, Tricia....!!

MOI NEW ROOM....side one...
Excitement didnt end there...I shifted into a new apartment (bye bye Dorms..!!) the next day--was I crazy to do that--well, kind of!! This was a completely different experience....in my 5 years of education outside my home in India, I had never stayed in an apartment with friends...so, this was fun...setting my new room was fun too...plus, i was thrilled to have a room all to myself...yes! I had been sharing rooms till now...and then, before I could unpack completely, I headed for a lazy holiday in Boston with my cousins...


MOI NEW ROOM....side two...
Although, within day 2 in Boston, I was bored with the laziness of being home all the time---the NY side-effect you could say---so, called up a friend's friend and made plans...NEVER in my life I have ever watched two movies back to back in a theatre...but then, we didnt have a choice---XMas day in Boston and everything was closed...!! Went ice-skating in Boston...saw the ice-sculptures...that was so rocking and I hate myself for forgetting to carry the camera that day!!Next year, DEFINITELY!!!

Heading back to Amherst was something I didnt want to---for starters, my cousin's wife had a baby boy while I was there...and she was still in Hospital when I came back---wanted to be there with my Aunt to help her...and then, I knew I had to be alone in the apartment here---my flatmates have gone to India for the holiday...so, why did I head back here? Well..I started an internship at an organisation called Verite, here in Amherst...it is an international organisation that deals with forced labour issues around the world--with offices in different countries and this being their Head Office...so, when I was offered an internship, I just didnt want to miss the chance...They just started a research project and I am thrilled about being a part of it...its about forced labour conditions in 11 countries, and of course, India is included!! So, here I am...a ghost in Amherst...with all my friends gone for the holiday, working so that I get some practical experience...at the end of the day, it isnt that bad...I am spending some quality time with myself...catching up on watching movies...writing my blog after a long long time (ahem!)...sleeping a LOT...and the list continues...!!
So, where do we go from here? Classes being in about 2 weeks and its going to a mad race after that...but before I leave this time, I want to make a New Year's Resolution...that I will update my blogs more often...for sure...!!
Till then...
CHEERS!!!!














Sunday, October 26, 2008

Ever chased butterflies....????



well...I did...and I am not kidding...


There is this place called Magic Wings near Amherst--its a Butterfly Conservatory...so, you enter this room, which is like a greenhouse, full of plants and butterlfies flying freeeeeeee!!! It was just so AWESOME!! and, if one could be very still and patient, it would land on you! It was the most amazing place to spend the day...I had never seen butterflies so closely in my life...and now I took pictures of them from so close!!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

JOHN KERRYYYYYY!!!!



yes yes yes....I met John Kerry and he is sooooooooo CHARMING!!!! How did that happen??? Well...one of my friends had worked in some way with the democratic party and there was a "secret" meeting in Northampton (a towm close to Amherst, where I live!!) and we all piled into my friend Anna's car and went off to see if we could really get inside...and VOLLA!! we did!!
(In the pic, L-R, John Kerry, Patricia, Elena, Anna and me)

He was basically talking about how people should go and vote...and not skip it!! The most important thing that I noticed was the difference between politicians addressing crowds in India and here...there, they would be surrounded with hordes of policemen, body guards with guns--as if someone will kill them everytime they step out of the house---while here, he was not surrounded by any body guards..was standing with everyone who wanted to take pictures with him....maybe its because he was campaigning---but he definitely looked more approachable than the Indian ministers---most of them think that they are God, once they get the seat!!


Anyways...Maria (a World Peace Fellow Alum) reminded me that I forgot to mention in my last blog what exactly I am studying---I am pursuing my Masters in Public Policy and Administration...Thanks Maria for pointing it out!!


Till next time, see u.........!!!!!!!!!! :)

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Two months and I am still alive....!!!!



Two months and I am still alive….
Why do I say this? Since the time I attended the North-East Link Orientation @ Worcester on September 20-21, 2008, I had been planning to start writing this blog…but somehow, something or the other kept coming up…no I don’t think I got lazy—there is just no time to get lazy…and when I say this to my seniors, they say, “Welcome to Grad School!!” But, then, I shouldn’t really start with the drawbacks—should I?
(Just to caution you---this is going to be LONG..so, maybe you would like to take a break now, get a cup of frothy coffee—I miss that here—and sit back and relax while I take you through my journey so far!!)

So, how did I actually get here???
Not many people know but I had ACTUALLY applied for a World Peace Fellowship offered by Rotary Foundation---it is a two year fellowship to study peace studies and conflict resolution. But, unfortunately, I got a regret letter---stating that I didn’t have work experience (I had just graduated from Masters in Economics when I had applied for it). And, lo behold, one fine evening, I got a mail from Rotary that I have been awarded a one-year scholarship to study @ UMass Amherst. I couldn’t believe it at all---was it REALLY happening??? When I got here, I met Robert MacDonald (who was my initial contact in USA!!) and he told me the story how his District had some surplus and he initiated the idea of sponsoring a scholar with two basic conditions---she/he has to come to UMass and that she/he has to be from India (Bob is fascinated with India, although he has never been there, and has done many matching grant projects with clubs in India). So, when the Committee liked my application but couldn’t grant me a World Peace Fellowship as I didn’t have any work experience (internships didn’t count ), they granted me this…and that’s how I landed in US of A!!!

The Honeymoon Period…

Nah! I didn’t get married---that’s how I like to describe the first week of School @ UMass. As an International Student, I was expected to arrive earlier than the others, as the International Programs Office (IPO) @ UMass (University of Massachusetts Amherst) hold a week-long orientation for International Students—helping us open bank accounts, apply for Social Security Number, social life in USA, Visa status and its implications, taking us around Amherst/Boston, explore the hiking possibilities to name a few. It was week of fun and enjoyment as we had a whole bunch of entertainment lined up for us---cultural night, comedy night, Bar-B-Q, ice-cream social, the HUGE pizza slice (my friend Kriti actually asked me to click a picture when I eat one!!)…and the list continues! I had some adventures as well---getting lost in the campus WITH a campus map in my hand---and not just once (the campus is SO HUGE!!), getting on the wrong bus back from campus…Ah! Those were the days!!!

I had gotten in touch with my Rotary Host Counsellor Maureen Bowler (President, Rotary Club of Amherst, RI Dist 7890) and she had offered to help me move from my temporary stay @ my friend’s place to my dorm room on a Sunday morning. (That was really sweet of her—isnt it? She is a sweetheart and I am so lucky to have her around.) She suggested that I take my time to settle in, explore the place and then within a week or so, we could start getting serious about my Rotary duties as an Ambassador of Goodwill. Worked fine with me!!
Getting in the grove…
Week two was fun in a different way---classes started @ an easy pace, department orientation, meeting new people and making friends is always fun!! And, then, we had the Department Picnic…I had never done a Bar-B-Q on my own…so, it was my first time ever!! Gosh! I was so thrilled…but then, I was thrilled about everything that was new here! (Not that much differed from the city that I come from in India).

Rotary Club of Amherst was the first club that I visited and then re-visited to make a presentation on “Festivals of India”. Honestly, I was super-nervous…but the response was great and the interaction made me feel at home. One of the questions that came up was—what was it that shocked me the most after I have come here? It took me a while to think about this---basically, I come from an urban city in India, which is very much like cities here. And, most of my other “shocks” were met when I was in The Netherlands for a Summer School in 2006. So, although Massachusetts is a pretty liberal State, I had been to one of the most liberal countries in the world. But then, there was something that had struck me—somehow, people are so engrossed with themselves here—the headphones are ALWAYS plugged in while they are walking, even its just 200 yards; the books/papers are ALWAYS open in the bus—somehow, I felt that people tend to become so self-dependent for EVERYTHING that they just don’t need another soul around….and I wonder is if this the reason leads to any psychological disorders. I really fail to understand this!! (Any help?)

BOSTON!!!
Well…it’s always nice to have family around somewhere---and I am lucky too. My cousin and his wife stay in Boston, which is just 2 hours from Amherst. So, the first time I visited them, we had a nice tour of Boston and Cambridge. I was super-thrilled (there I go again---didn’t I tell you???) about being in the Harvard Campus that I so-wished I could study there! Ah! Someday!! I went with a backpack and came back loaded with ingredients to cook some nice Indian food for myself!!
Welcome Fresher’s!!
The Indian Students Association @ UMass is very active. They had organized a Fresher’s Party for the newbies...and of course, we were supposed to put up some great show! The ‘enthu-cutlet” that I am (don’t know what I am talking about—check out my orkut profile testimonials---for lazy people, it just means, enthusiastic about everything in life!!) I made sure some of us presented a small dance and then I went a step further---I performed a solo performance!! Gosh! It took some guts to do that!! But then, it was fun...they had also organized for dandia and garba—and the dance freak that I am, I felt I attained Nirvana!!
Rotary orientation @ Worcester…
This was one weekend that changed a lot of things in my life----first and foremost, I met a number of scholars who have been selected by Rotary International to go abroad from USA and come to USA...the exchange of ideas, notions, beliefs was amazing…and what was more reassuring was the sharing of common apprehensions of the inbound scholars. The orientation was very well-organized and it was really nice when we split in groups so that inbound and outbound scholars could discuss things that concern them separately. Concerns like weather (which is a HUGE concern in the New England area in North-Eastern USA), presentations and how to go about them (we also had a practice session for that!!)The weekend was a hectic one as we continued our informal conversations way after the formal sessions got over---the networking was awesome and meeting some of the Alum was a great experience…and am looking forward to seeing them again on Nov 8 (Rotary/UN Day @ UN HQ in New York). Before I forget, Carlton was a sweetheart to volunteer to drive me to Worcester and Maureen joined me on Saturday morning, and then drove me back.
Rotary and Rotract presentations…
The next Rotary Club that I visited was Bob’s
club…it was a presentation I did without the powerpoint and it was much better than the last one (whoever said we couldn’t survive without technology, I certainly did better without it!!)…there were other Indians in the club and we all sang the National Anthem of India in the beginning of the presentation—that was a hit, since this club is known for singing for every occasion—they sing before the meeting begins, sing a welcome song for the speaker…It was great day—especially, after the meeting, Bob’s wife Joan took me for my “WINTER” shopping…Bob and she wanted to make sure that I was WARM in the winter…and knowing women, you know how much we looooooooovvvvvveeeeee shopping…but, it was super-nice of her to take me around, trying out things and making sure I get the best…Thanks Joan…
Did I tell you there is a Rotract Club @ UMass? I don’t think so…well, I am Rotractor here…and so, I also had a small presentation in one of our meetings…well, I didn’t bug the under-grads with the culture of India—so, instead we had a discussion about college life in India, dating scene in cities and small towns, body piercings, the work that I did during my Interact days in school…they asked some really nice questions too---how am I finding it here, what are my biggest shocks (Somehow, this question ALWAYS comes up!!) and how am I adjusting to the education system here.
Handling kindergarten kids…
Yes! I decided I needed some challenge in life…so, thanks to the Associate Director of my Program, I went to Mountain Brooks Kindergarten School in Sunderland to talk to kindergarten and pre-school kids about India…and that was the MOST AMAZING presentation I had…they came up with questions only kids can come up with---about my nose ring, animals in India, number of languages we speak in India, how much time does it take to get from India to USA…and the fun activity got them excited too—I had drawn the flag of India on paper for each of them to colour…and it came out so well!! This encouraged me to try arranging for some more presentations in schools…am working on that, let’s see!!
Vintage Train Ride for Alum of RI District 7890…
District 7890 organized an Alumni get-together for scholars from their District. It was a vintage train ride to see Fall colours and picnic lunch in Thomaston in Connecticut. It was long ride but I got to interact with District Governor Jim Dusza and discuss issues regarding my presentations and my experiences here. Meeting some of the Group Study Exchange (GSE) Team members was great---some of them are leaving this January for Thailand and some had come back with rich experiences. Also present was Governor Elect Prasad Menon and a few other Rotarians. A fun-filled day!!

So, this is for now..will keep writing in..and this time, more regularly….DEFINITELY!!!

Monday, October 6, 2008

Initial hiccups...

hello fellow scholars, alum and roatarians...

if someone visited my blog and found it empty, then I am really sorry!! Its not that i have nothing to say, its just that I dont know where to start----putting a month's experience isnt easy, is it? So, I am working on it---am not that great with stuff like this, you know....so, check this space after the Columbus Day weekend, and you will definitely find interesting account of my short experience in USA!!!

till then, thanks for logging here...

Puja